Feel like you don’t fit in? That’s great! You were born to stand out! People nowadays are so worried about fitting in that they forget what makes them special. Why be like everybody else when you can be you!
Shine bright like a diamond, girl!
Zig while the others zag
Don’t waste your time worrying about what other people think about you or feeling insecure that you don’t measure up. Pro-tip: It’s all in your head. There is no standard, everybody is good enough. Everyone is dealing with — and focusing on — their own similar feelings of insecurity. So chin up and take comfort in the fact that you’re the best at being you, no one else can do it better.
Birds of a feather flock together
One of the most awesome things about being an individual is that we end up finding other cool people who do their own things. You all just get it about embracing your quirkiness and awesome personalities. It’s great having other outsider friends because not only do you have someone who knows the struggle, you also have friends who are good at a variety of things. You can learn more about the world and different interesting things, which leads us to our next point.
Differences are fantastic!
Some people draw. Some people dance. Some people sing. Some people get sporty. You get the idea. And you? Do whatever makes you happy as long as you’re not hurting anyone. You are not any less good or worthy than your peers because every girl is really unique and different from each other. It’s like comparing apples to unicorns. Lean into your quirkiness, develop your individual talents and you’ll be so much happier.
Imagine if the world was filled with people excelling at the same things with the same interests and strengths and weaknesses. Boring, eh?